13 Men And Women Secretly Reveal What It's Really Like To Have An Arranged Marriage

It's not all good, and it's not all bad.

Though not a primary cultural norm in the United States, arranged marriages make up many nuptials in India and in some U.S. churches

And while arranged marriages do have their problems — child marriage and domestic abuse are huge issues — studies have found that while "love" marriages fare better in the beginning, arranged ones become stable for the long haul

Whisper, an app where peole can submit secrets anonymously, compiled the secrets, fears and revelations of those claiming to be in arranged marriages. 

What they revealed may surprise you.

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To make a confession of your own, check out the Whisper app.